Trust is hard

This has been a busy month for sure. The new album, Someday, has been released. I’ve taught two weekend-long women’s retreats in New York and Michigan and given a pre-release concert for the album which involved getting all the new songs ready for live performance. I shot a new music video for one of the songs and prepped another. Through all of this, though, God has been reminding me again and again that this is about Him and not me.

I have been having a very different experience for me and it’s caused some anxiety. With so much to do to prep the new music and the teachings and concerts for the women’s retreats, I came down with a cold. That’s usually no big deal, and I thought I’d be over it in time for my performances. I’m usually able to sing even when my speaking voice isn’t clear, so I wasn’t too worried. But the first retreat was rainy and cold, and even though I had an amazing time there with all the women, I was getting sicker and by the time we left, I had lost my voice.

I decided to break out the big guns and go on total vocal rest. I had five days between retreats, and obviously a speaker/singer without a voice is a little like a marathoner with broken ankles. It was pretty hard to be silent while working and parenting three kids, but I was sure I would be fine. I haven’t lost my voice since I was 16! But my voice did not come back, and on the Thursday before the retreat I spent the entire day in prayer trying to figure out what to do. I was so looking forward to the weekend so it was personally disappointing, but even more so, I absolutely could not leave the camp stuck without a speaker! But I literally had no voice on Thursday – what if I just physically could not do it?

If I count back to when people first started hiring me to sing at their weddings and play their parties and accompany their Christmas plays, I’ve been a professional musician now for over 20 years. Since then I’ve performed probably thousands of times and I have never once had to cancel. I’ve had some wild stories and once after being stuck in traffic for hours in New York I literally skidded into the wings of a theater about thirty seconds before my entrance (causing the understudy to break out into sobs of relief), but I have always, always been able to do what I have promised to do.

This was really beyond my control. Interestingly, my topic for the weekend was God’s providence and over-arching plan for all of our lives. Everything I was planning to teach that weekend had immediate applications to my situation. God always has a plan. God’s plan is always better than our plan. We can’t always see God’s plan, but we can always trust God’s character. God’s plan is always for our good and He is always working. And the truth is, I totally believe all of those things. With my whole heart I believe them.

Why do I do this anyway? I speak because God has told me to speak. I sing because He wants me to sing. When He doesn’t want me to do this anymore, I will stop.

If there’s one thing God has taught me over the past years of my life dealing with my dad’s death and my son’s special needs and my own issues, it’s that God is trustworthy. God is a good God, and His character does not change. Trust is hard, and I love to be in control, but really, control is just an illusion. None of us is really in control of anything. Everything can and sometimes does change in the blink of an eye. Everything, that is, except for God.

God is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow. He is faithful, and He has a plan. My plan seemed pretty good – I needed my voice to share with people about God. Why would He not want me to do that? And yet, I know there is always a plan. And even when I can’t see it, I can trust that God is working things out His way, for my good and for His glory.

I’m happy to say that I was able to do the retreat. I couldn’t sing, and that was sad, but it didn’t stop God from working. I croaked through my talks and He gave me just enough to teach what He wanted me to teach. I’m still not at 100%, but I am trusting God. I still don’t know the why, but maybe it was so I would write this for one of you. I don’t know, but I trust that God does.

Where could you be trusting God more today? Is there something causing anxiety in your life? First Peter 5:7 says, “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”

God cares for you. That’s you personally in whatever situation you find yourself. He knows, and He cares. You can trust Him. And there is no One more trustworthy.

6 Responses to “Trust is hard”

  1. Sarah says:

    Jennifer, I was at that second Ladies Retreat in MI and although, I would’ve liked to hear you sing live, God really used you to speak to my heart and life. The study on Esther was just what I needed right when I needed it! God is good, and I am SO thankful that He has a plan and that it cannot be thwarted! Thank you for allowing Him to work through you, even as you were not feeling well. May His blessings be abundant to you and your family!

  2. Chris White says:

    Yup… It was for me. Thanks.

  3. Judy Moore says:

    Jennifer that was a wonderful story and I have been studying the book by Elizabeth George called The Heart of A Woman that Prays and so much of what you said was also in her book. And just today, with my other TLC members at North Mar Church, read the same scripture you quoted–I Pet. 5:7. It never ceases to amaze me how God uses a sermon, bible study, a radio program, your blog or others words ; and they all seem to be connected and teaching us the same thing! I shared your offer for special needs children with a young woman that has a child with Downs. I don’t know if you would remember, but I met you when you sang and shared at North Mar a few years ago. I told you about this same woman who had just lost her husband and her baby, at that time, was only 10 months old and she has two older girls. God is really using her in a grief share program. She has come a long way, with God’s help, and God has been so good to her. I gave your CD to her at that time and she has said how it has been a blessing to her. May God restore your voice so you can continue to bring glory to Him.

  4. jennifer says:

    Thank you, Judy. It’s so true – God’s Holy Spirit is always speaking, and I know when I start hearing things in multiple places, I need to be listening! My voice is back, I’m happy to report – thanks for the prayers.

  5. jennifer says:

    Thanks, Chris, I’m glad. 🙂

  6. jennifer says:

    Thanks, Sarah! I had an amazing time there, even with the problems, and am so glad the study spoke to your heart. Blessings to you too!

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